Just for clarification I pay for all our holidays from my personal bank account - all traceable. Only time we get a break is over Christmas and Dan doesn't need gifts or clothes ect so I take us away on holiday all of which we work everyday while we are on holidays online and catching up on emails for free because neither ot us take a wage and Dan doesn't even claim for his petrol costs because he saw his mum struggle as single Mother with zero support from his Dad .